I love him, but I carry the deen alone

I am so tired. My husband is a good man, kind and steady in ways I depended on when we fled Kabul, but when it comes to leading anything of the deen at home he is absent. I wake the kids for fajr, read with them at breakfast, sign them up for Quran class, and patch together our iftar duas. He smiles and says, "Do what you think is best," like it is support, but it feels like being left at the front of a heavy cart. I don't want to sound ungrateful, I just want him beside me for this. Has anyone lived this? How did you carry it or change it?